MesS wrote:One of the things Lily and I realized after getting Mikkel. Was that we where not ready. And I think it is really really important to ready. There is no doubt we couldn't be without him, but it wouldn't have hurt to have waited another year.
It can be mindlessly hard work to have a baby, it was for us. You can't be selfish with a kid, and thats a really rude awakening. I don't think anyone knows what it is not to be selfish, until they have tried being responsible for another life for a period of time.
we were ready (damn im old) and stilll..its a lot of work i think its normal when sometimes you pull your hairs out and ask yourself..why cant i be like filip..but hey then you realize that when YOU get old ..all your babies earnings will go to you..and YOU can retire around 55 living in the house with your kid..doing nutting but things that are fun, while reminding your kid that him growing up costs soo much and now its PAYBACK time..atleast thats what im planning on !!!